The impact of others on That child…
As we see while growing up we mimic people. How they talk with each other, how they argue, or how they curse each other. There are many things we do the whole day-night time. And we often forget that they’re looking at us. Child psychology is based on the behavioral changes around them.
The impact of teaching, telling them to do, learning by looking at surroundings, or the trauma they’ve gone through. Many things are there precisely like this. And the pattern of psychology in the mind of children does change after these incidents. Many reasons for that impact or we can say things happen with them. Human relations are a major turning point. For example, Teachers, Parents, Relatives, and Friends are the most highlighted part of life.
Let us start from birth. When a child is born their parents decide what to do with that child’s future till he understands some things about life or the etiquette of life. They also act according to the situation. But they don’t change their mentality of life. They keep teaching the same things that they’ve learned from their childhood. They don’t keep the timeframe in mind that things are now changed a bit.
Time is changing now. We should not restrict our children from reaching their destiny. We should also not force impeccable thoughts on their mind. Again and again putting pressure on them, giving the burden of life at a very early stage. Keeping these things in mind they give the same road to their children as they’ve lived. The fear of loss and the fear of image in public.
When a child is growing up and they keep observing things throughout their childhood. They start behaving in that mindset. keeping the same psychological pattern. Keeping the injustice happening to them. The wound their parents gave them. They just can’t move on from that thing as life goes ahead. Basically, we just need to clarify the vision of parenting and their actions. I’m not saying just give them what they want even though you can’t give them. But don’t ever put that thought that he or she cannot buy or have that thing in his or her life.
Because they keep things to themselves and when it comes out they turn into something else. Their mentality changes their perception of every individual and hatred spreads faster than breathing. Parenting does matter while children grow up. When some parents start fighting each other, start verbally abusing, and shouting at them without their mistakes, beating their child just to keep out the anger of someone. “They Don’t even try to understand their emotion or feelings of them.”
They just keep going and going doing theirs without thinking about what impact will be on their children. Some parents drink alcohol for sake of their frustration and irritation. But indirectly they are giving way to the worst thing of their life. Children do see their parents’ behavior very seriously. And since it happens they act according to it and build a wall within themselves to feel protected. One line I must say which I heard from someone very close that “To whom love is not getting from home they always try to seek from outside.”
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