Are Girls objects? Are women anyone’s tools?
When you hear this term, what images spring to mind? Mother, sister, friend, partner, daughter—these roles only seem relevant when they connect to us personally, don’t they? Yeah! Talking about scenarios at any random place. We already know what goes into that conversation when girls / women get stabbed by eyes and comments. Not just in talks of boys, girls also comment on girls in the wildest way possible. So, what’s the root of this behaviour? Is change possible? It must be because the current discourse is not progressing positively in any aspect.
Firstly, we need to learn about respect a Girl/ Woman!
Most of the people in our world don’t even respect women as they should. They try to act as recklessly as they can. And, It doesn’t go well at all. It often leads to abuse in words as well as in action. That action does not look alright at all. We had to acknowledge them with the uttermost respect. Respect sets the tone right from home itself.
When a child witnesses their father beating their mother without considering the impact on the children, it can have lasting effects. The child may grow up to emulate their father’s behaviour or take the opposite approach. On the other hand, a girl might internalize the belief that anyone could be like her father, based on what she witnessed and her mother’s descriptions of her husband to their children. So, it is necessary to teach how to respect a girl whether that is a sister, mother, wife or any other girl out there in this world. Kindness and respect are vital, as are the values we impart. Ultimately, our actions reflect our character and are of utmost importance.
How to treat and Speak with a girl? and why it is Important!
Treating a person nicely is Admirable, even if they are a stranger to you; there is nothing wrong with kindness.
Respect her as you would want to be respected. Listen to her, value her ideas, and recognize her emotions. Communication is key. Be open and honest, share your feelings, and let her share hers. It’s the foundation of trust and understanding. Support her ambitions and dreams. Be there to cheer her on and provide support whenever she needs it.
Kindness matters. Even small considerate actions can make a big difference in how loved and valued she feels. Independence is crucial. Respect her need for personal space and time to pursue her interests. Politeness goes a long way. Simple acts like holding the door or carrying something heavy for her demonstrate your concern for her comfort.
It is important to treat because it Builds Trust, Trust is essential for a strong and lasting bond. It encourages mutual respect. Also, creates an Emotional Connection. When the emotional connection is established then it promotes happiness like melting butter on bread. Sets a Positive example for any other individual in society. Last but not least is conflict, all the above act reduces conflict between the person.
Keep in mind that each individual is unique, so recognizing what makes her feel valued and cherished is crucial.
Anybody’s Property? object to torture, And Harassment
We heard many a time that women and girls are treated like they are someone’s property. Often think of them as an object to torture them to death. Serious issues are lying in our society. The amount of harassment going on is way out of imagination. We can’t imagine some people doing harsh things to their partners. On the top stating that person belongs to them legally means you can harass her or beat her like a demon. No way some claim that their daughter is their way of taking out their frustration by doing nothing but beating, raping harassing mentally, physically and what not. That doesn’t happen only with legally married people or in between families. It happens openly in our society where normal or abnormal girls are raped brutally.
Never thinking about the things that will happen to her after these demonic acts are done to her. Things get out of hand when these kinda criminal-minded people don’t stop their act on anybody. When they don’t even think again while raping a child who still doesn’t know how to speak a word. On the other side some even raped old age lady even though they know they can’t bear that thing. People do these things in a conscious state of mind. Yet, they don’t get punished by the laws and order of our country. There are various cases in human existence where people do what not to girls. It saddening to hear that some do harass and then rape them as they want after doing this they don’t stop there at all they kill that person in the most satanic way by cutting body parts and organs.
Need to think and act accordingly!
It is difficult to understand the challenges that girls face during certain phases of life, particularly when society fails to recognize and empathize with their emotions. Sometimes society as well as their own families also don’t support them at that time. That is heartbreaking for any girl who happens to be in that worst phase. We need to understand the feelings and that situation. And must act upon it as soon as we can. Because what happens we cannot change but what is going to happen we can prevent it from happening.
Construct tight rules and laws should be actively working on these things. When the victim is seriously injured then punishment should be given to the criminal or the person who did that. Additionally, it’s important to recognize the distinction between those who mistreat girls and those who do not engage in such behaviour at all. Not everyone should be tarred with the same brush; there are individuals committed to safeguarding a girl’s dignity and purity, providing them with comfort and security.
Be on the brighter side of society instead of dark circles of people.
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